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I normally don’t reblog these kind of trite little memes, but I really feel the need to comment on this one, since there is still so much grave misunderstanding and ignorance, particularly here in the West, regarding karma.
Karma has absolutely NOTHING to do with “deserving” anything! It is simply cause and effect, with the effects often occurring much later than the causes (according to Buddhadharma, usually lifetimes later). For anything that happens to a person to be “deserved” suggests that there is some cosmic being passing judgment on all of us and determining who should have what happen to them. I am aware that other religions (or at the very least, some followers’ interpretations of their religions) have such judgmental deities; Buddhism does not. Buddha never said that anyone got what they “deserved” through karma.
For example, my husband did not “deserve” to get into a car wreck today; the people who died or had their houses destroyed by tornadoes here in north Texas did not “deserve” that either; those in poverty don’t “deserve” their condition…the list could go on forever. All of these events are negative karma ripening; the conditions for that negative karma planted who-knows-how-long-ago are right for them to ripen now. That does not mean that any of those people “deserve” it.
Geshe Kelsang Gyatso - “Introduction to Buddhism”
This quote really hit home for me today. My husband called me while I was on my lunch break to tell me he got into a car wreck; he had blacked out or fallen asleep at the wheel while sitting at a light at an intersection, and woke up as he hit the curb and then a pole. The paramedics checked him out at the scene and then took him to the hospital; I told my boss and left to go to the hospital. He’s mostly OK, but not allowed to drive until he gets checked out by our family doctor and probably a neurologist.
It’s times like these that we really need to rely on our Dharma practice. I can’t say that my mind was perfectly calm and peaceful through the whole ordeal, but I think I was calmer than I would have been 5 or 6 years ago before I started studying and practicing Buddhadharma. After I got off the phone with my husband after the first call to tell me he had gotten into a wreck, the word “accept” popped into my mind; just accept the situation as it is since there was nothing I could do at the moment, but practice patient acceptance. Now I’m continuing to practice patience while we sort out the situation with our insurance company, hospital bills, a rental car while the car is in the shop etc.
Geshe Kelsang Gyatso - “Modern Buddhism”
Happy Mother’s Day!